I knew it was inevitable. Our 21 month old is jealous of our newborn. It hasnt been as awful as it probably could be but its frustrating nonetheless. Hes had one meltdown and a few whiney spells. I have no clue how to deal with it other than giving him as much extra lovins as I can and trying to spend as much one on one time with him as I can but I see it getting worse before it gets better, and thats a scary thought. He has shown some random affection for her though but its few and far between..